“The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain!” Dolly Parton
Learn to embrace the rain, the difficult times. There is a sign on my wall that states “Every cloud has a silver lining”
Some days it is HARD to find that silver lining, but I’ve always found that if I look hard enough, every situation I’ve encountered thus far has some sliver of good to be found. Your focus and perspective are key.